Friend? Hell No !!

Everyone has a type, 

I have a type, 

Types of people that i hate.

I hate people who thinks they know what's best for you. And when they're wrong, they'd say "Aiya how i know arr"

If you have something they don't, they take advantage of you. First they start off by asking and later when everyone gets comfortable with each other, scrap the 'asking' and go straight for demand. It's like "if you don't help me out with this then I'll tell everyone how you didn't wanna help me". They aren't your friend if they think they have the right to make demands from you.

A friend calls you out when you're already out with other friends. You said you can't confirm with your friend and your friend says alright at first. Then all of a sudden that friend calls again to inform you she already called other friends to go out and wants you to come back by this so-so time. Was she deaf when you said you're out with other friends and can't confirm with her?? It's like that friend is running your freaking life for you. Don't make decisions for us without our consents !!!

A friend calls you out and says there are two other friends coming. When you go fetch them suddenly there's an extra person and your car can't fit so many. You complain and tell them that and they keep saying "can fit can fit !! Never mind never mind !!" They don't have to worry because it's not their car. If your car's suspension decides to give out who do you think is gonna get blamed by their dads? Surely it won't be your 'friend', because they could only say "Sorry sorry sorry if we knew we wont force it".

You can be stingy but overly stingy is bloody annoying. A group of friends wanna go out but when it comes to paying the parking, if its RM1-2 never mind la, if it's a RM10-20 parking, the whole group should share it right?? If you don't have enough money just say you'll pay them back next time. NOT hide one corner and pretend you didn't see the price ! Have you ever felt bad for the driver? Your friend?? BLOODY HELL !!! Not enough your friend has to fetch everyone and drive them here and there, lose strength in their feet because of the car pedals, then fetch everyone back home and you can't even bother to offer to pay for the parking???

Your friend finds a valuable item a stranger left behind and wants to keep it. But your friend doesn't want to get caught, she says her pocket isn't big enough and tells you to keep it for her. She shoves the item to you and quickly walks away. If the owner of the item catches you, what do you think would happen? Would your friend hurry back to help you? Would your friend pretend she didn't see anything? Let's move past this part. Your friend takes back the item from you and says she's gonna sell it off and split the money with you. She ends up changing her mind and says she wants to keep the item and you never EVER see it again. What friend would make you risk taking the blame for her selfishness?

A friend of mine is a victim to people EXACTLY like that. This whole post is about her friend who is the complete package of "I'm-a-leech-so-hate-me". I understand why she still goes out with that 'friend'. But every time my friend mentions about that person i just feel like slapping her. You gotta learn how to say 'NO' and be firm with it. I learned it so why can't you? If they ignore your 'NOs' even when you give them a proper reason, they clearly don't care about your feelings. I try to advise her but due to my language barrier and lack of choice for words, nothing comes out the way i wanted it to sound and i end up advising to nothing. 

If you ever know someone like this, steer clear from them. 

They may seem fun to be with but they're bad bad bad to the bone.

True friends would understand if you don't wanna do something.