Not much has changed since my last post in October besides completing my final internship and degree course. I got a job now. A real adult job !! Oh wow ! (...i'm so missing being lifeless...)
- Nothing to complain about my job so far besides the morning traffic to and from work.
- My dogs killed their 2nd rat in the yard today.
- My car makes this weird woozing sound whenever i get stuck in traffic for too long.
- I would kill to go see Bruno Mars or Pink perform in Malaysia.
- CNY this was good because i received extra extra ang paos from my married colleagues and company.
- I can play the ukulele.
- I finally changed a good hand phone for myself.
- My weight lost challenge crashed and burned miserably.
- I went for GDA and saw almost everyone i like.
I'll stop around there because there is this one thing that i have to get off my chest and is the main reason for me suddenly reappearing in the middle of the night to blog.
I sub-title this as,
GIVE IT BACK !!!
I really hate and despise it when people borrow anything of mine and NEVER bother to return it.
YOU as the bloody BORROWER should be the one to make the first move but no~
I as the OWNER have to go..... and ASK for my items back.
Do you know how it feels like to have to ASK for YOUR things back?
It makes the borrower think that you're scared they won't give you back your stuff and you're RIGHT BECAUSE THEY WON'T !!!
And the most dumbfounding thing is (I speak from experience)...
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The appropriate question here is,
Why didn't YOU return it after you were done with it?
I try to think of many reasons of why won't they return my stuff but it always comes back to being lazy.
It can't be forgetful because i've reminded them many time before.
It can't be inconvenience either because how inconvenient can it be to give back what you took?
I'm a naturally slow responder. I don't look deeply into anything. I don't look for secret codes hidden in sentences. I take a really long time to process things and when i do it's usually too late to say anything without sounding like a fool. (damn it rhymed)
Even until now there are things that i have lent to others all the way back during highschool that still hasn't been returned and i have asked for it but all i got back was, "Yea yea i'll remember to give it back..."
I get really sick of asking so i just forget about it, hold a grudge against whoever that took my stuffs and in the future just pretend that i don't have whatever it is you want to borrow.
Call me childish but tell me how would you feel if you have to chase for your own stuff?
